I wanted to focus my personal essay on how food helps us to build a community. I feel that this community can start when we are in preschool or elementary school, we sit in our classroom groups
or with our friends and eat lunch together. In those groups we always are trading our lunches for things that we like better. I think this can build a community. Families can build cultures around food, so why can't children build a community around it? This to me was really influenced by going to one of my placements for a class, where I am a lunch buddy for children and I watched them interact while they eat. Seeing them clump into their groups of friends and talk about something other than class is a good thing. But even when children go through the lunch line or pick their food choice for the day they consult with their friends. This to me is creating a community.
I live in a sorority house, we all have built a community around food. We all eat dinner together, it is something that I would not trade for the world. We all talk and laugh and bond, we all talk about how we hate meatloaf or how we absolutely love Tacos. Its a time where we all can decompress from our day. This is my community and I spend so much time with them, but dinner is where we just focus on us.
Food plays a big role in my social life, I think at least once a week living in a sorority house I am asked to go on midnight snack runs. Being as busy as we all are this is one of two times that we have together so we all socialize around food. My house loves to cook and bake so food is a big part of who we are. It makes me sad to know that just because my house isn't a tiny person like a stereo typical sorority that we are called fatties or A-O-eat another piece of pie. Its because be aren't afraid to indulge in somethings that we want. I think that this has also helped us to form a community just because of a negative stereotype that comes from food.
I cannot believe your house has been called A-O-eat another piece of pie! That is so pathetic, to think that a stereotype is so known and that people actually consider it when looking at a group of girls. Just because a girl in a sorority isn't a twig doesn't make them any different than anyone else. Ugh I literally just feel so aggravated by that, the nerve some people have is just astonishing!!! Well, I am glad that the girls in your house enjoy dinners together and don't follow the stupid stereotypes because I'm sure you gals have a better bond with one another than the girls in other houses who probably don't even spend much time at the table together because they feel obligated to look like a toothpick.
ReplyDeleteI thought it was very interesting how you tied in how your sorority approaches food culture and how it has it's own traditions. People shouldn't give your sorority such a bad rap for having such an interesting diverse group of people. You said it yourself, you all are not afraid to indulge in things that you. You've formed a bond over food and your organization will continue to grow positively because of your diverse outlook on life. Don't let other people break those bonds!
ReplyDeleteI really like the idea of making meals into a community experience. Is there a better time to socialize and enjoy others' company? Great choice to write about Sarah!
ReplyDeleteI think it's great that food is a community experience with your sisters. Food (almost) always tastes better when it's shared in my experience.
ReplyDeleteI always love learning about different cultures food and how it affects their community.
ReplyDeleteI struggled with the reading as well. Definitely not my favorite of the semester. I like the word cloud you posted. It really reflects society!
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